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What can writers learn from Fredrik Backman’s My Friends?
A lot, as it turns out.

In this episode of The Dialogue Doctor Podcast, Jeff Elkins sits down with members of the Dialogue Doctor community, including coach Laura Humm, to talk through Backman’s novel My Friends and unpack the craft choices that make it work.

This is a full-spoiler discussion, so if you haven’t read the book yet and want to experience it fresh, come back after you finish.

The conversation starts with what makes Backman so emotionally effective. His books can move from grief to absurd humor to tenderness in the space of a few pages, and My Friends is no exception. The group talks about how Backman balances darkness and comedy without undercutting either one.

From there, the discussion moves into one of the most interesting craft choices in the novel: the narrator.

Unlike many of Backman’s other books, My Friends uses a strong omniscient narrative voice that does more than simply move the story forward. The narrator comments on art, pain, friendship, loss, and the world itself, creating a philosophical layer that none of the individual characters could provide on their own.

Jeff and the group also dig into:
–how Backman creates distinctive character voices
–why deeply flawed characters can still feel profoundly lovable
–how friendship and belonging become the emotional engine of the story
–why the phrase “one of us” carries so much weight
–how an omniscient narrator can hold together a complicated structure
–why nonlinear storytelling works in this novel
–how Backman reveals where characters will end up and turns the mystery into how they get there
–why emotional logic can matter more than chronological order
–how a clear story clock can support a nonlinear narrative
–what writers owe readers when a character reaches the end of an arc
–how humor can make painful material more bearable
–and how Backman uses outsiders, poverty, privilege, grief, and social isolation to deepen character relationships

The group also gets into a lively disagreement about the ending, including whether every character payoff feels earned and what happens when a writer makes a surprising choice that does not land equally for every reader.

This episode is especially useful for writers working on character-driven fiction, literary fiction, nonlinear narratives, ensemble casts, emotional storytelling, or stories built around friendship, grief, and belonging.

Because My Friends is not just a book about what happens to a group of people.
It is a book about the people who change us, the people who see us, and the stories we tell about them after everything has changed.

Full Episode at https://youtu.be/vuCpbiDcfyo

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